Discreet adult contact site, 18+ only
Safety and Respect
Meeting like-minded adults should be fun. Here is how we keep it exciting, friendly and respectful.
Exciting, friendly and respectful
Swinging In The UK is for adults aged 18 or over. It is at its best when everyone feels relaxed, welcome and respected.
A clear yes is the best start
A clear happy yes from everyone involved makes for a super fun filled evening.
Change your mind, no worries
Good company will always understand if you want to change your mind. We have all been there at some point.
Chat first, meet when you are ready
Enjoy getting to know people first. Keep personal details such as your address or workplace private until you trust someone.
Know who you are talking to
Checks that help you see who is real.
ID verification
Optional government ID verification, with a badge on the member's profile.
What it means for you: It helps you see who is genuine. Not every member has chosen to verify.
Video verification
A live video check with a moderator confirms identity without any documents.
What it means for you: It gives authenticity without sharing sensitive ID.
Age assurance
AI age estimation, with additional checks where required.
What it means for you: It helps keep under-18s out.
Your privacy and control
You decide what is shared, with whom and when.
Safe usernames
Your real name and email are never shown publicly.
What it means for you: It helps prevent unwanted contact and being traced on social media.
Location privacy
Other members see your nearest town or city, never your exact address or live location.
What it means for you: Your home stays private.
Instant blocking
Block any member immediately, so they can no longer contact or see you.
What it means for you: You are in control of who can interact with you.
Easy reporting
Report members or content quickly from within the platform.
What it means for you: It allows prompt action on abuse or inappropriate behaviour.
A community that looks out for each other
How members keep each other accountable.
User rating system
Every member has a reputation score based on behaviour and feedback.
What it means for you: It helps you judge who is trustworthy before you chat.
One-click feedback
Upvote or downvote an interaction with a single click.
What it means for you: It encourages respect and flags bad experiences early.
Off-platform contact alerts
Attempts to move a conversation to an outside app such as WhatsApp are detected.
What it means for you: It warns you about a common scam tactic.
Active protection
Technology and people working to reduce harm.
Behaviour monitoring
AI looks for unusual or suspicious activity patterns.
What it means for you: It helps identify scammers, bots and harmful members early.
Content moderation
Images, videos and text are screened on upload using AI and human review.
What it means for you: It works to keep harmful or inappropriate content away from members.
Explicit image protection
Potentially sensitive images are blurred, with a warning, before you view them.
What it means for you: You choose whether to look.
Swift takedown
Requests to remove unauthorised or harmful content get a rapid response.
What it means for you: It reduces exposure and protects your privacy and rights.
Support and standards
- Our support team is available 24 hours a day.
- Safe dating tips and reminders are built into the platform.
- Hosted on PCI-compliant cloud infrastructure with SSL encryption.
- We are involved with the Online Dating and Discovery Association, which works on industry safety standards.
Tips for meeting people
- Meet somewhere public for the first time, such as a bar or restaurant.
- Tell a friend where you are going and when you expect to be back.
- Trust your instincts. If something does not feel right, you are always free to leave.
- Agree with what you hope to do before you actually meet, and remember that anyone can say no at any time.
We adhere to the lifestyle rules for everyone's enjoyment and ultimate satisfaction. For more, read our guide to consent, boundaries and etiquette, see what you can do on the features page, or visit the FAQ.
Ready to create your profile?
No card needed to create your profile. Say what you are looking for and start exploring our members. You must be 18 or over.