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Frequently Asked Questions

Quick, friendly answers about Swinging In The UK and the swinging lifestyle.

What is the lifestyle?

The lifestyle is another name for swinging. It describes committed couples who mutually agree to swap partners with other couples, and also singles, for adult fun. They enjoy meeting other like-minded adults, always with consent and respect.

What is Swinging In The UK?

Swinging In The UK is a discreet contact site for adults aged 18 or over who enjoy the swinging lifestyle. You create a profile, say who you would like to meet and browse our members at your own pace.

Who can join?

Anyone aged 18 or over, anywhere in the UK. You can join as a man, a woman or a couple.

Does it cost anything to create a profile?

No card needed to create your profile.

Can couples join together?

Yes. Choose Couple when you sign up and you will be asked for both of your dates of birth, so you are both on the profile from the start.

Can I choose who I would like to meet?

Yes. When you sign up you say who you would like to meet, such as men, women, couples, or couples and singles. You can change your mind later.

Do I have to meet anyone?

No. Many members enjoy chatting for a good while first, and you only meet when everyone is comfortable. A clear yes from everyone involved is the best start.

What if I change my mind?

That is absolutely fine. Good company will always understand if you want to change your mind, at any point. We have all been there at some point.

How do I stay safe?

Take your time, trust your instincts, tell a trusted person about your plans, and keep to private arrangements. You can walk away from any conversation at any moment, and you can use the report and block tools whenever you need them.

Can I find members near me?

Yes. We are building pages for areas across the UK, starting with Yorkshire, so you can look at the places closest to you.

I am new to the lifestyle. Where do I start?

Our blog has a friendly introduction. Try What Is the Swinging Lifestyle? and the glossary for any terms you have not come across before.

Ready to create your profile?

No card needed to create your profile. Say what you are looking for and start exploring our members. You must be 18 or over.

Step 1 10% complete

Let us get your profile started.

First, who are you?

Choose the one that fits you.

Please choose one so we know who you are.

And who would you like to meet?

Choose what suits you. You can change your mind later.

Please choose one so we know who you would like to meet.

When were you born?

Please set the year to your own. You need to be 18 or over to join.

Please choose a full date of birth. You need to be 18 or over.

Last step. Your name and email.

Use a first name or nickname if you prefer. You will choose your password on the next screen.

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