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Our Community

More than 66,000 members, from singles to couples, across the UK. A friendly, growing community of adults who enjoy the lifestyle.

Who is here

Swinging In The UK is home to more than 66,000 members. Roughly half are men, about a quarter are women and about a quarter are couples, so whoever you are hoping to meet, there is a good chance you will find like-minded people to chat with.

Members come from all over the UK and from every walk of life. What they share is that they are adults, they enjoy the lifestyle and they value consent and respect.

Our community values

The lifestyle is at its best when everyone feels relaxed, welcome and respected.

  • Consent first

    A clear happy yes from everyone involved is where every good evening starts.

  • Respect for everyone

    Be kind, say no gracefully and take no gracefully. Good company always understands.

  • Discretion

    Keep other people's details private, online and offline. It is one of the most important courtesies in the lifestyle.

Read more on our safety page, or start with the blog if you are new to the lifestyle.

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