Discreet adult contact site, 18+ only
Features
Everything you can do on Swinging In The UK, and what each membership adds.
Free to start
Creating a profile is free, and no card is needed. Free members can look around, join in and get to know people, with a limited number of messages each day.
Build your profile
Add photos, choose your interests and say who you would like to meet.
Daily match suggestions
Our matching looks at things like where you live, what you are looking for and how recently members have been active.
Join in
Post status updates and photos, comment on articles and posts, and take part in polls and quizzes.
Earn badges
Badges such as Verified, Chatterbox, Heartthrob and Most Popular show that you are real and active.
Get verified
Free, optional ID verification adds a badge to your profile. You can also ask for admin profile validation, which needs no sensitive documents.
Message members
Reply to anyone who writes to you, including VIP and VIP Plus members, and send a limited number of messages each day.
Compare memberships
VIP unlocks the full communication and discovery tools. VIP Plus adds more visibility on top.
| Feature | Free | VIP | VIP Plus |
|---|---|---|---|
| Create a free account and browse member profiles | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| Daily match suggestions | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| Post status updates and photos | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| Comment on articles and posts, join polls and quizzes | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| Read and reply to messages from VIP and VIP Plus members | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| Free ID verification and admin profile validation | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| Badges | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| Unrestricted messaging | No | Yes | Yes |
| Advanced search filters | No | Yes | Yes |
| Exclusive chat room access | No | Yes | Yes |
| Private group chats (up to 50 people) | No | Yes | Yes |
| Rewind profiles you passed on | No | Yes | Yes |
| See everyone who likes you | No | Yes | Yes |
| Priority comment placement | No | Yes | Yes |
| Exclusive matches | No | No | Yes |
| Priority placement for messages and likes | No | No | Yes |
| Top of the match stack | No | No | Yes |
| Boosted profile visibility (add-on) | No | No | Yes |
| Super Match (add-on) | No | No | Yes |
See the prices on our pricing page, or read how we look after members on our safety page.
Verification you can see
ID verification is free and optional. Members who choose it get a badge on their profile, so you can see who has taken that extra step. A live video check with a moderator is also available, and it confirms identity without any documents. Not every member is verified, so it is still worth taking your time to get to know someone.
Ready to create your profile?
No card needed to create your profile. Say what you are looking for and start exploring our members. You must be 18 or over.